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Thursday, 20 August 2009

  • Go Ahead, Hit Him Now

    by: tirockiinpiink

    We, as a society, need to start taking responsibility for our actions. I don't know when the idea of being irresponsible became a trend, but it needs to die fast. Too many parents aren't taking responsibility for the children they brought into this world. Too many adults are making bad decisions and thinking there are no consequences. Too many kids don't know what responsibility is because no one is showing them. How can we teach anyone responsibility when we don't display it ourselves? Oh right, do as I say not as I do. Today I'm touching on a bit of irresponsibility on the part of females, old and young, in America.

    Society pretty much frowns upon a male hitting a female due to differences between the sexes. I believe many people here would agree that a male should not put his hands on a female. Then there are the people who believe if a female is endangering your life, you have to do what you have to do. Even so, others would say the male should just walk away.

    My issue is females hitting males and getting away with it. We act like it is okay because most males are stronger than females. Sometimes females can do some serious damage especially when the other party is not fighting back.  Too many females are quick to hit a male and go screaming he was in the wrong. Both parties are in the wrong, but let's focus on the female. A 15 year old girl does not like something a 15 year old boy is saying so she punches him in the face, slaps him, and kicks him. He slams the girl. Before he knows it, several people in the neighborhood are jumping on him. He could have walked away, but he didn't. So now that poor boy is all bruised up for slamming a girl and labeled as a bad guy. Put yourself in his shoes. Someone begins attacking you and your survival instincts kick in, fight or flight. Most of us will fight. As I said before, he was wrong, but did anyone even scold the girl for her actions? No, simply because she was a female.

    Come on females, you wouldn't walk up to another female, hit her, and expect nothing to happen. So how in the world do you think you can get away with hitting a male with no consequences? Stop hitting males just because you think you can. It isn't okay to hit someone because you think there are no consequences. There are consequences like getting hit back by the male or a female relative of his or the cops being called. You won't always get away with it. If you hit someone then you'd better be ready to face the music. Be responsible for your actions, exhibit some self-control, show some dignity and remember there are consequences.


Friday, 26 June 2009

  • The Danger of Q-tips

    Written by AnchorsAwayx

    I've been walking around deaf for so long, I don't remember what it's like to hear. My fault for having to learn the hard way: Q-tips are not meant to clean ears. Yes, it looks like they're working when you pull them out covered in orange goo, but there's a lot more where that came from and it's hiding even farther down your ear canal.

    Years of pushing and twisting Q-tips in my ear earned me a trip to the doctor to clear out everything packed next to my ear drum. I stopped cleaning a while ago because all in one push, it got so bad that I couldn't hear anything out of my left ear. After getting it flushed out with water for the better part of 5 minutes, I saw why. About a pea-and-a-half of orangy brown crap came out.

    Now that I have my old hearing back, it hurts. On the drive home I almost told my mom to turn down the radio because it was too loud. ( Isn't the saying, "If it's too loud, you're too old?!"). When I got home, I felt like I was walking around in plastic bags because the rustling of my clothes was so loud! Not to mention typing on the keyboard sounds like throwing pebbles at a brick wall.

    Could this happen to you? Yes, and it will if you use Q-tips.

Wednesday, 17 June 2009

  • Why aren't you guys commenting? lol

    The way I'd hoped this site would work is that I would feature people here, you guys would read, and then go comment on their site. But I've been noticing not many or no comments going to the posts I feature. Do you not like my features? Or is it too much to read and then click the link to go to their page and then comment there? Should I just be recommending the posts instead?

    Any feedback is welcomed! I thought I was picking some interesting stuff.

Tuesday, 16 June 2009

  • Separation of Church and State: Part 1 of 2

    Written by: doubledb

    Let's be honest, it has been a long time coming... and many of us so called Christians and Americans seem to have no clue what it means to have freedom of religion, freedom of speech, and separation of church and state. People think they know about the issue but in reality have no idea what is boils down to...



    Separation of Church and State: Part 1 of 2

    How Christians Have Lost Their Voice and Will Loose Their Freedom

    First, what most people think is separation of church and state is related to things like not being allowed to have the 10 Commandments on public property, not being allowed to pray in schools, not being allowed to say Jesus in a graduation ceremony, and not being able to share Jesus everywhere. But when we look at these issues of freedom, where are they at? Most of these are all in public settings, setting where people are all together... The 10 Commandments are great laws to live by but the issue is not that they are not good but that the government is endorsing one religion and not giving freedom to another. The choice is to either take out the commandments or to add other religious texts from various religions; however, a majority of Christians would not like other religions referred to...

    Ah, but here it is, Christians wanting freedom of religion, but only for themselves and not for others. Does allowing freedom for others mean we are condoning their beliefs and rejecting our own, certainly not. What it does mean is that Christians are putting themselves in a very difficult hole in society. Toleration is the cry we hear from the liberal foot-hills of free speech and if Christians and right-wing people would be smart, they would accept toleration as a valid point, not only in allowing more discussion of other beliefs but using it as a stepping stone to also allow their own faith and beliefs to be heard and also to remain valid in the eyes of others.

    Prayer in school is another thing that was lost almost a half-century ago and is still very much spoken about, especially by the older people of my generation. They feel Americas decline was based on this; of course one would say that the decline caused the idea of ending prayer to come up so something was wrong before that ever happened. Still, think about it - how would you feel if a Muslim was allowed to pray every morning and your child had to be a part in it? Does that seem fair? You say "We are a Christian nation" and to that I say "So was Germany and the Nazis'"... I am not saying we are the same, except we cannot put faith and nationalism on the same scale, Rome did that and fell between their King and Pope conflicts as well if you read the history books (See: Reason why America added Separation of Church and State). To say others faith exist in America is not a denial of our own, in fact, if we would open our eyes we would see it as a vast amount of people needing to see the light of Christ instead of seeing them as political enemies (enemies who Christ told us to love by the way - Matthew 5:43-48 anyone?).

Saturday, 30 May 2009

  • A commentary on "Datingish"

    Written by: mynameisblueskye

    "I'm a Regular Here At Datingish"

     

    Imagine this.

    Datingish is a little swanky bar, where in on the jukebox is nothing but songs revolving around love, breakups, sex, hooking up, anything that has a thing to do with attraction. What is being served here at the Datingish minibar is some of your favorite drinks or liquor. Non-alcoholic beer or water for those who aren't really drinkers.

    We all get together and ask for the drinks, and in exchange, we all sigh as soft as the wind, and we involve somebody to fix your problem or talk about love. Anything that just happens to be on your mind, we talk about it. Cheating girlfriends, you cheating on them, friends zones, all over a tall glass of whatever you ordered. Some might even be drunk enough to give you crazy misunderstood advice, or some may be nice and honest enough to tell you what you need to do.

    Either way, someone is listening and someone is hoarding the karaoke machine. (Remember, the jukebox plays nothing but love songs all day and night. And it matters not if you can sing. All you know is that you have that blues.) The person you know comes in, and says "I'm a regular here at Datingish", and spills out a new problem or situation everyday, before heading off to their wives, alone, to their girlfriends or withs someone who just happens to have problems, too.

    Does anybody catch that feeling from Datingish? Are you a regular here at Datingish? What's your poison tonight?



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